The Secret of Focus Isn’t What You See

The Secret of Focus Isn't What You See

The Secret of Focus Isn’t What You See What?  I thought the whole POINT of focus was what I chose to look at, right? I mean, what I look at gets energized by my attention, it’s part of being mindful. True, so true. Then, there is the fact that while looking at ONE thing, we… Continue reading The Secret of Focus Isn’t What You See

So, Why Isn’t It Working for You?

Why Isn't It Working For You?

So, Why Isn’t It Working For You? It’s not because you’re a failure, or flawed or incompetent.  The reason is usually due to one (or more) of the following:    You’re trying to fix the wrong things    You’re not joined to your natural strengths    You’re not serving a purpose bigger than you   … Continue reading So, Why Isn’t It Working for You?

Make a Date with Your Fears

Make a Date with Your Fears

There is noise in the mists.  Ill-defined, a bit eerie. A sinking feeling in your gut you sometimes can’t ignore. The “I’d rather be someplace else, almost anyplace” feeling. We all have them.  Fear.  Whether large or small, seemingly overwhelming or laughable, fear it is.  Don’t get me wrong, some fear is survival based and… Continue reading Make a Date with Your Fears

Why You Can’t Fire Yourself for Messing Up

Woman looking at camera as her ice cream fell on the road

We’ve been there, someone is “let-go”, laid-off, fired.  Maybe by a boss, perhaps by a friend.  Perhaps you have experienced it too. Jarring, abrupt, rending perhaps and then each party moves on. Perhaps you have gently let a graphic designer go or a fired a service provider by simply shifting to someone else. There is… Continue reading Why You Can’t Fire Yourself for Messing Up