Category: Science of Change
So, What IS a Destiny Mentor?
The Struggle Train is Broken – It’s Going Nowhere You Want to Go
So, Why Isn’t It Working for You?
So, Why Isn’t It Working For You? It’s not because you’re a failure, or flawed or incompetent. The reason is usually due to one (or more) of the following: You’re trying to fix the wrong things You’re not joined to your natural strengths You’re not serving a purpose bigger than you … Continue reading So, Why Isn’t It Working for You?
But It’s Not a Simple Question! Questions Part 2
But it’s NOT a Simple Question! Part 2 of our series on asking the RIGHT question In “Should I Do THIS?”, I started a series on asking questions. It turns out asking a question in the right way is very determining on the results received. Last time, I wrote that asking a “Should I” question… Continue reading But It’s Not a Simple Question! Questions Part 2
Should I Do This? Questions Part I
We all do this one, have a little internal q&a dance with our Should Monster from time to time. You know, that second-guessing creature we live with. It’s an old dance though isn’t it. The outcome is familiar. No one ends up enjoying it either! If we choose “right”, we feel relieved. If we choose… Continue reading Should I Do This? Questions Part I
Make a Date with Your Fears
There is noise in the mists. Ill-defined, a bit eerie. A sinking feeling in your gut you sometimes can’t ignore. The “I’d rather be someplace else, almost anyplace” feeling. We all have them. Fear. Whether large or small, seemingly overwhelming or laughable, fear it is. Don’t get me wrong, some fear is survival based and… Continue reading Make a Date with Your Fears
Why You Can’t Fire Yourself for Messing Up
We’ve been there, someone is “let-go”, laid-off, fired. Maybe by a boss, perhaps by a friend. Perhaps you have experienced it too. Jarring, abrupt, rending perhaps and then each party moves on. Perhaps you have gently let a graphic designer go or a fired a service provider by simply shifting to someone else. There is… Continue reading Why You Can’t Fire Yourself for Messing Up
Why I Don’t Do Goal Setting
Being Different Isn’t Always a Mistake
It’s soooo easy to judge ourselves, especially in what we attempt toward our new and greater possibility. It’s unknown, isn’t it, that possibility. So how do we assess whether or not our latest attempt is moving us forward toward that greater future? Unfortunately, we we often judge how we are doing bases on what we… Continue reading Being Different Isn’t Always a Mistake