Category: Becoming

The Secret of Focus Isn’t What You See

The Secret of Focus Isn't What You See

The Secret of Focus Isn’t What You See What?  I thought the whole POINT of focus was what I chose to look at, right? I mean, what I look at gets energized by my attention, it’s part of being mindful. True, so true. Then, there is the fact that while looking at ONE thing, we… Continue reading The Secret of Focus Isn’t What You See

Be-coming, Not a One-Time Job

Becoming - Not a One Time Job

You’ve likely seen the quote: “Be the change you want to see in the world”. While often attributed to Gandhi, there is no evidence he wrote it but that’s not the point. If you want change in the world, it starts with you.ย  If you want a shift, a difference, changing how you yourself are… Continue reading Be-coming, Not a One-Time Job

Why the Changes You Make FAIL 70% of the time, and what to do about it.

Boarded Up - Change that Didn't Work Out

Hang on, really?ย  70% of the changes I make FAIL?ย  That seems harsh. Sadly, it’s true.ย  I discovered the hard facts as I spent years researching why my own changes fell flat so often.ย  What was going on, I wondered and whatย  can be done about it.ย  I’m bright, motivated, capable and still change was… Continue reading Why the Changes You Make FAIL 70% of the time, and what to do about it.